Ill try to make this as brief as possible so I dont bore anyone. I was in an IT Management role with a small firm of 100 employees. After 4 years (about 3 years ago), said firm (along with 3 others) was sold to a larger firm that now made up 1500 employees. The acquiring firm already had a full IT team along with an IT "Director" and IT "Manager" that have been with the company for close to 30 years at that point. I was reduced to doing basic tasks and support for the last few years but keeping my title and pay but it did knock me back over a decade in my career sort of speak. The new firm was acquired last summer by a much, much larger firm. The current IT team as it sits is staying put as the N. America presence (acquiring firm is overseas so it makes sense). All that said and done, the IT Director has moved into a VP role and is second in command of IT in NA, next to the regional CIO. All of the other IT Managers have quit. Im still doing what I have been doing for the last couple of years. Now for the fun part. This year, our annual reviews came around. I didnt even get one. Nothing scheduled. Nothing mentioned. Nothing at all. On top of this, for the last 2.5-3 years, I have never even had a 1-1 or any sort of career development meeting with with any of the IT "leadership". I honestly stayed on longer because of my loyalty to the previous leadership who was still here up until the end of last year. I had a few projects to finish to complete turnover a year before. Really I was going to leave a year ago but that is when the job market started turning. You can say I was loyal to a fault and that is on me. Cant do anything about it now. Now for the conundrum that I am in, yes obviously I should leave and make my way to greener pastures. But still have to find something. In the meantime, should I actually bring the lack of not getting my annual performance review up to anyone or should I just let it slide and move on as soon as possible? If I do bring it up, should I take it straight to HR or with my manager, who is the IT "Director" who has over looked me anyways. The 18 yr old in me wants to just stop doing anything and let them figure it out (if they arent doing something for me, why should I do something for them). The 47 yr old in me knows better and knows that is not the right approach. Any advice would be appreciated.

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Ill try to make this as brief as possible so I dont bore anyone.  I was in an IT Management role with a small firm of 100 employees. After 4 years (about 3 years ago), said firm (along with 3 others) was sold to a larger firm that now made up 1500 employees. The acquiring firm already had a full IT team along with an IT "Director" and IT "Manager" that have been with the company for close to 30 years at that point. I was reduced to doing basic tasks and support for the last few years but keeping my title and pay but it did knock me back over a decade in my career sort of speak.  The new firm was acquired last summer by a much, much larger firm. The current IT team as it sits is staying put as the N. America presence (acquiring firm is overseas so it makes sense). All that said and done, the IT Director has moved into a VP role and is second in command of IT in NA, next to the regional CIO. All of the other IT Managers have quit. Im still doing what I have been doing for the last couple of years.  Now for the fun part. This year, our annual reviews came around. I didnt even get one. Nothing scheduled. Nothing mentioned. Nothing at all. On top of this, for the last 2.5-3 years, I have never even had a 1-1 or any sort of career development meeting with with any of the IT "leadership".  I honestly stayed on longer because of my loyalty to the previous leadership who was still here up until the end of last year. I had a few projects to finish to complete turnover a year before. Really I was going to leave a year ago but that is when the job market started turning. You can say I was loyal to a fault and that is on me. Cant do anything about it now.  Now for the conundrum that I am in, yes obviously I should leave and make my way to greener pastures. But still have to find something. In the meantime, should I actually bring the lack of not getting my annual performance review up to anyone or should I just let it slide and move on as soon as possible? If I do bring it up, should I take it straight to HR or with my manager, who is the IT "Director" who has over looked me anyways. The 18 yr old in me wants to just stop doing anything and let them figure it out (if they arent doing something for me, why should I do something for them). The 47 yr old in me knows better and knows that is not the right approach. Any advice would be appreciated.

Simplifier · Accepted Answer

Okay, let's break this down in a way that's easy to understand. It sounds like you're in a tough spot, feeling overlooked and undervalued after all these company changes.

Think of your annual review like a report card. It's a way for the company to tell you how you're doing and what you can work on. Not getting one is like not getting any feedback at all, which isn't helpful for you or the company. Given that you haven't had a 1-on-1 in years, it's probably worth bringing it up.

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Mid-Career Crisis Coach · Answer

It sounds like you've been through the wringer, and it's completely understandable to feel undervalued and stuck. You're right, staying out of loyalty was admirable, but now it's time to prioritize your own career fulfillment.

Given the history, I wouldn't expect much from raising the lack of a review with your manager. Going to HR might be an option, but honestly, it sounds like your energy is better spent focusing on your exit strategy. Start networking, updating your resume, and exploring op

Experienced HR Manager · Answer

Alright, let's cut to the chase. You're in a tough spot, but not an uncommon one after acquisitions. Loyalty's a good trait, but it doesn't pay the bills or advance your career.

Forget the 18-year-old's impulse. That'll only burn bridges. As for the review, yes, bring it up, but strategically. Go to your manager, the IT Director. Frame it as a professional development opportunity. Say you're eager to understand how you can contribute more effectively to the new organization's goals. If he brush

Career Counselor · Answer

It sounds like you've been in a holding pattern for a while, and it's completely understandable that you're feeling undervalued and ready for a change. Given the lack of attention and the absence of a performance review, your feelings are valid.

Before you leave, I would suggest scheduling a meeting with your IT Director to discuss the missing performance review. Frame it as a request for feedback and an opportunity to understand your current standing within the organization. This serves two pu

HR Professional · Answer

It's understandable to feel overlooked and undervalued in your current situation, especially given the changes in company structure and the lack of performance reviews or career development discussions. Company policy typically dictates that all employees receive regular performance reviews, as they are essential for providing feedback, setting goals, and documenting performance.

Given the circumstances, it would be prudent to address the lack of a performance review. Starting with your manager

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